Shame: Are you burdened with social stigma or self-doubt?

Alcoholics Anonymous, the 12-step program for those who have experienced alcoholism, began amidst shame and suspicion in the 1930s…

Sex AddictionBrian KlinkJune 11, 2020Comment

Shame: What is it and where does it come from?

Let’s start with the compulsive porn user. Shame is the notion that what he is doing is abnormal and as such, must be kept hidden…

Sex AddictionBrian KlinkJune 9, 2020Comment

Four Things You Can Do Now to Bring an End to the Message of Shame and Negative Self-Talk

Although shame is often a loud and convincing voice, there is much that can be done to counter its negative message and bring about peace and self-assurance. Here are four things you can begin to incorporate into your daily life starting today…

Sex AddictionBrian KlinkJune 8, 2020Comment

Adoption Part I: My Message to Adoptees

Adoption is a beautiful and necessary part of our culture. Adoption places children who may not have a lot of hope for a healthy, opportunity-filled life…

Relationship CounselingBrian KlinkJune 22, 2019Comment

Adoption Part II: A Natural Process Interrupted

This is the second in a series of blog articles meant for anyone who has a part in the adoption process: adoptees, adoptive parents, involved siblings, significant others of adoptees, and extended family…

Relationship CounselingBrian KlinkJune 21, 2019Comment